Answering the question, "why a girl don't want talk to me?does she dislike me or what else ?"

Why Won't That Girl Talk To Me?

People are complicated. To really get the answer you will need to ask her, and even then you may not get a truthful answer. Asking her will save you a lot of guess work. That will take courage and strength. No matter what she says it will tell you more about her than about you.

Communication is the foundation for all relationships; be it with family, friends or potential love interests. On some level we all know this. That is why it takes varying degrees of courage to approach people we don't know very well. Being snubbed can be very painful, especially if you have a liking for the person you want to talk to or they are a person you look up to as an authority figure, or an icon of some sort. During the teen years this can be even more painful. Teens and young adults have so much pressure on them to begin with that rejection can fall hard on their already taxed emotions. There are also perceived long reaching ramifications about who a teenager associates with, of course as one matures, they find that this notion isn't exactly true although some of this still goes on, like the song says, "High School Never Ends." Most of the superficiality does dwindle down for the most part.

So, to answer the question, "What makes a girl not want to talk to you?" is really getting into deep water. The following are only a few of the possible reasons. The most important reason is she just doesn't want to and that is her choice. It could be just as simple as that. No reason for her behavior at all. She simply doesn't talk to people.

That said, here are a few other possibilities; It could be that she perceives you as someone who doesn't fit with her idea of who she. She may not think you would fit with her idea of what her friends are or do. These ideas have no real relationship to who you are. For example you can be perceived as too smart, too deep, too energetic or not cool enough. If this is her motivation then wait until she has matured. A friendship based on superficial commonalities is not a friendship that will last anyway. She could have had a traumatic experience with someone who looked or acted similar to you. You may not be able to overcome that as trauma is very scaring.

There could be another reason. It is possible that she is kept on a short leash by her family or a boy or girlfriend. She may not be allowed to talk to someone new without a safe social network such as church or family gathering. She may be a very sheltered and timid soul and it may take a lot of time before she opens up to you.

Shyness is also a reason to keep to ones self. If she is afraid of people this could be a real hindrance to building health friendships. She may even have low self-esteem and question your motives for approaching her. She doesn't want to fall for a practical joke. This might be a real challenge to overcome. It is up to you to know if you want to put in the time or not.

Your lifestyle may be off putting. This does not mean you need to change. It is just a fact. A lot of people do not realize how much attention they draw to themselves just by being themselves or emulating people they want to be like. Are you loud or very quiet? Openness and honesty can be scary to someone who comes from a family or social network where lying or talking around a topic or exaggeration is part of their communication pattern. Likewise, your own truthfulness can be a factor. Do you dress differently than the vast majority of people? That will draw both favorable and unfavorable attention. Do you engage in illegal activities that could make people keep you at arms length such as stealing, drug and alcohol abuse? Even something as simple as enjoying music or the vocabulary and dress associated with people who do engage in destructive activities can put you in line with the people who are expected, do to stereotyping, to engage in destructive behavior.

Then there is meanness to consider, the rudeness of people seems to be at an all time high. People feel somehow anointed to be abusive, disrespectful and hurt people simply because they can. To go out on a limb and approach someone in kindness is an act of bravery. Some people have polluted their hearts so much that they must greet this with annihilation. To pretend someone doesn't exist is very hurtful. To view someone else as inferior is a sign of immaturity. It occurs in the very old as often as it does in the young. It would not be a surprise if young ladies adopted this self designating elitist stance in their day to day life. People have lost the ability to see potential. She may not see you for who you are or she may see who you were and not see you for your ability to be a friend or romantic lead.

A good quote to use as you contemplate this situation is, "Don't mistake stupidity for cruelty." Some people just don't know any better. They hurt people because they don't have manners or any personal integrity. Hurting people and destruction is easy. Building friendships and bridges are difficult and take work and determination. The important thing is to build bridges that lead you where you want to go. Ask yourself is this person worth the heartache and rejection? If not, move on.

You are worthy of respect and consideration and simple human kindness. You can not make someone give that to you. You can only offer it in your own daily interactions with people. Rejection is really hurtful to people and the pain of rejection does not go away but it does get easier to handle as you age and mature. Look at this girl and your interactions with her as a way you are building skills for the future. People who handle rejection with grace rise in the ranks of the human race. They develop into leaders, are not afraid to take risks and they eventually turn into people who will catch the attention of those who rejected them by being an example of strength and courage to everyone around them, then it will be up to you how to proceed when they approach you..

The bottom line? If she doesn't talk to you move on. Life is too short for people who can't be bothered with you. There are girls who do want to talk to you. Know that and rejection isn't so hard to take.